Dear Annie: cross country relationship suffers whenever couple is finally together regular

Dear Annie: cross country relationship suffers whenever couple is finally together regular

Annie Lane writes the Dear Annie advice line.

Dear Annie: my hubby and I got married prior to the pandemic. Prior to the marriage, we lived in numerous states, 3,000 kilometers aside. Us apart again geographically for eight months after we got married, the pandemic split. We finally got in together, and I ended up being glad to obtain the chance to work at home with him inside the town.

We mostly be home more, working at home and watching films together. We had been in a car crash a couple of days I am not able to run or walk for long periods of time after we were reunited, and my leg was hurt, and. He had been perhaps maybe not harmed into the accident.

It’s been six months because the accident, and my husband has not yet shown any real fascination with me personally all of this time. I sometimes hug him and hold him while you’re watching films, but he doesn’t start any comparable affection that is physical. We should have kissed 4 or 5 times because the accident, constantly inside my demand.

I keep telling him that I love him, in which he acknowledges that, however when I ask him why he has got lost desire for affection of all kinds, he claims he simply has. Upon prodding further, he when stated we had when we were dating that it was because of the arguments. Another time he stated that after my leg is healed so we have the ability to venture out more, we’ll both feel much better.

Apart from the love issue, anything else is great.

I understand I have actually extra abdominal fat that is tough to be rid of, but I had the while that is fat, too. I went on a few hikes and walks with him, however with a hiking stick, and sometimes I need help. I think he wishes me personally to be totally self-reliant.

The arguments while dating had been pretty much our previous relationships I don’t think he is the kind of person who likes to forget the past that I left behind, but. Continue reading “Dear Annie: cross country relationship suffers whenever couple is finally together regular”